So, today I decided to write about the lesson that I've learned in the past and it might help you too by some weird way. Or maybe not, it's up to you fellas.
Well, I am talking about the decision making in our daily lives while choosing with who you want to be more than friends, but can't decide.
To begin, my personal suggestion is not to go with double, triple, quadruple, quintuple and so on dates. Let me tell you why. Trust me, in the end you will get my point!
The reason is, that at the end of the day you will loose the rest of dates like instantly. Why is it wrong for you and them? Imagine, that you like five females and you are in the situation where you have to decide which one will be your girlfriend and probably future fiancee or even wife. As you are still a free, meaning not taken man, you are going on dates with them. Finally you have decided which female is the best for you. However, after 2 months of constant dating you have realized that she was not the best option, so you have to break up with her while it is not too late to do so. And now you are alone and looking for another life partner of yours.
The worst part of it is that those other 4 girls are not going to date you again, because no one wants to be a second choice. So you have to find someone you haven't met yet. That does sucks, because the story will start over and over again.
So my solution to this sounds like that:
Don't go for more than one date at once. If you find a girl you maybe like, then go for it. If nothing works out, then you will still have the rest of girls that you will like (I am talking about those 4 girls. If you met them in the first place you will meet them after separation too, just in other circumstances, but not after dating them all first and coming back again, because as I said, no one wants to be your second choice). Does it makes sense?
Moreover, there are a few more reasons why it is wrong to go on dates with more than one person.
First of all, it is rude. How do you feel kissing 5 different girls? It is kind of sounds like cheating and tells nothing good about you. Would you want them to do same thing to you?
Secondly, it is really disrespectful. I know, I know, you are in position of making a life choice, but still, it is disrespectful. Do you think she deserved to be in this kind of position to be treated like this? Would you want to be someones friend from the list with pluses and minuses? I guess not.
And finally, the karma is everywhere. If you do something bad in any way to someone, then karma will come back to you with double power. Trust me you don't want this as well.
To sum up, my personal suggestion is always put yourself in others position and decide weather you would like that someone would do same thing to you, or not. Don't do things that you don't want that someone would do to you.
And also remember, that you can always end up in the position where you will loose the moon, while counting the stars.
Just to add in, it was just my personal opinion about it and it is not necessarily suppose to be the same as yours. I'm not judging anyone, just saying what I think.
So this is pretty much it for today's blog. I might write another blog this month again, just to share my experience from my birthday, which is going to be in two weeks.
I hope you liked this blog. I love you all and see you next time.
Sorry for my English. It's not my mother tongue language.
Hope you can understand. xx
Improve your writing:
ReplyDelete1. you should change the post's title to something that describes it in a few words, like "Dont date several girls at once" or "Tips on multi-dating for men", cos I doubt anyone would click a google search result with a title "A lesson to learn", which says nothing about what the post is actually about :)
2. use headings to chop the post into individual parts, like "Don't go for more than one date at once", "Would you kiss a girl who just kissed another man?", "Karma is a bitch" and etc. Your "Good day fellas! :)" is not a heading! Think of headings as mini-titles :)
3. put your photo at the top of the post, even if it has nothing to do with the content of the post, it will still look better that this wall of text
4. use text formating tools to highlight important thoughts, words or sentences, in most cases "bold" or "underline" will do the trick. As for quoting others, or something off-topic, use "italic". Dont hesitate to use other formating options as well, the post will look much more attractive and will help you arrange your thoughts while writing.
Best wishes ;)
Oh, and as for the article - very good advice. If I begin to date a girl, some other girl always shows up to whom Im attracted too, so I try to date both of them at the same time and end up being with neither of them :D
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